I lost my dad almost two years ago and your words here resonated more with me than I can possibly say. I too find connection and comfort in running because a love of exercise is something he and I always shared. I made it through my first holiday season last year. It was unbearable and also somehow strengthening in the survival of it. Sending you virtual hugs from a stranger who fully gets it. Thanks for writing this!
Emily, I have to keep looking for your posts, so don't get them as soon as I'd like. I'm sure it's operator error on my part. Birthdays weren't ever that special to me, but your mother helped me recognize the importance of celebrating those milestones, rather than "playing down" their importance or choosing to not acknowledge them. She loved her birthday! I didn't always remember the date, but know I'll never forget it in the future. I think about your Mom so often, and regularly find things that remind me of her, her laugh, her dry humor and strong spirit. Keep writing. It is a powerful testament to your grief and your love. love you, Aunt Mary
I lost my dad almost two years ago and your words here resonated more with me than I can possibly say. I too find connection and comfort in running because a love of exercise is something he and I always shared. I made it through my first holiday season last year. It was unbearable and also somehow strengthening in the survival of it. Sending you virtual hugs from a stranger who fully gets it. Thanks for writing this!
Emily, I have to keep looking for your posts, so don't get them as soon as I'd like. I'm sure it's operator error on my part. Birthdays weren't ever that special to me, but your mother helped me recognize the importance of celebrating those milestones, rather than "playing down" their importance or choosing to not acknowledge them. She loved her birthday! I didn't always remember the date, but know I'll never forget it in the future. I think about your Mom so often, and regularly find things that remind me of her, her laugh, her dry humor and strong spirit. Keep writing. It is a powerful testament to your grief and your love. love you, Aunt Mary
Thanks for sharing!
Palpable pain. Tangible testament of love for your mom.